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Virtual Baby Shower Etiquette for Guests
How to be a great guest at a Zoom baby shower.
Virtual showers are here to stay. Here's how to be a great guest when celebrating over Zoom.
Before the Shower
- RSVP promptly: Hosts need an accurate headcount for shower boxes
- Test your setup: Check camera, audio, and internet connection
- Order gifts early: Shipping delays happen — order 2 weeks in advance
- Confirm address: Make sure gifts ship to the correct address
During the Shower
- Join on time: 5 minutes early is ideal
- Mute when not talking: Eliminates background noise
- Turn on your camera: It's more personal and engaging
- Dress for the occasion: Not formal, but presentable from the waist up
- Good lighting: Face a window or use a lamp — don't be a dark silhouette
- Stay engaged: Don't multitask. The host can tell.
Participation Tips
- Use chat for comments that don't need voice
- Unmute when invited to share well-wishes
- Play games enthusiastically (it's awkward when no one participates)
- Use reactions (clap, heart) when appropriate
Gift Logistics
- Ship gifts directly to the parents
- Include a gift note with your name
- Send a screenshot of the order confirmation if parents will open gifts live
Pro tip: If you receive a "shower box" beforehand, open it on camera during the shower. It creates a shared experience.