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How to Write a Birth Plan (That Actually Gets Read)

Creating a flexible birth plan medical staff will respect.

A birth plan communicates your preferences. Here's how to write one that helps.

Keep It Short

One page maximum. Bullet points. Staff won't read a novel during labor.

Key Sections

  • Pain management preferences
  • Who you want in the room
  • Movement/positioning preferences
  • Intervention preferences (IV, continuous monitoring)
  • Immediate postpartum wishes (skin-to-skin, delayed cord clamping)
  • Feeding intentions

Important Mindset

Birth rarely goes exactly to plan. Frame preferences as "I would prefer" not "I demand." Be open to changes if medically necessary.

Pro tip: Share your plan with your provider before labor day to discuss any concerns.

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