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Baby Showers for LGBTQ+ Families

Inclusive celebration ideas for all family structures.

All families deserve celebration. Here's how to make showers inclusive.

Invitation Wording

"Join us in celebrating [Names] as they grow their family" or "A shower for the [Family Name] family."

Theme Considerations

Gender-neutral themes work well: woodland, celestial, rainbow, books. Avoid assumptions about who's "the mom."

Games and Activities

  • Avoid games that assume pregnancy experience
  • "Two Truths and a Lie" about both parents
  • Advice cards without gendered language

Gifts

Registry items are the same regardless of family structure. If surrogacy or adoption is involved, timing may differ—ask the parents what they need.

Language Matters

Use "parent" instead of assuming "mom/dad." Follow the family's lead on their preferred terms.

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