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Rainbow Baby Shower: Celebrating After Loss
Thoughtful ways to honor loss while celebrating new life.
A rainbow baby (born after pregnancy/infant loss) deserves celebration, with sensitivity.
Ask the Parents
Some want to acknowledge the loss; others prefer to focus on the new baby. Let them guide the approach.
Gentle Acknowledgment
- Include the lost baby's name or date in a quiet way
- "We remember [name] as we celebrate [new baby]"
- Memory table with a photo or candle
Theme Ideas
Rainbow themes (obviously) work well: "After the storm comes the rainbow," "Sunshine after the rain."
Emotional Preparation
Mixed emotions are normal. Provide tissues. Give the parent permission to step away if needed. Avoid phrases like "at least you can get pregnant" or "everything happens for a reason."