Setting Boundaries with Grandparents

Grandparents mean well, but boundaries matter. Here's how to set them kindly.

Common Issues

• Ignoring safe sleep guidelines
• Giving food you haven't approved
• Undermining your parenting decisions
• Too many visits (or not enough)
• Posting baby photos without permission

How to Set Boundaries

• Be direct but kind
• Present as safety issues, not personal attacks
• "Our pediatrician recommends..." is powerful
• Be consistent—boundaries only work if enforced

Conversation Starters

"We really appreciate your help, but we're doing things a bit differently because [reason]." or "I know this is different from when you had kids, but research has changed."

Pick Your Battles

Not everything is worth a fight. Focus on safety issues; let the small stuff go.